There’s boy in my school who joined a fraternity. He’s the same year as me so I’ve had the chance to observe him since he arrived on campus. He’s a party-animal and I thought: joining a frat would not be good for him. Well, he pledged and his partying increased. He’s gone to class hung over and sometimes can’t make it out of bed in the mornings.
Students, join frats/sororities for the right reasons. Don’t pledge for the fun. Greek life goes beyond partying. Many students become infatuated with the freedom that comes with frats/sororities. The opportunity to drink without an RHA monitoring is something students can’t resist. Even the worst hazing won’t stop them from taking advantage. However, take a moment to think about the positive benefits that come with Greek life.
One advantage is leadership. All frat/sorority members have a chance to lead in some capacity; whether it’s presiding over a meeting or organizing an event. As you move up the ranks, there’s a possibility you’ll be president. Imagine being the person everyone in your house looks to for answers.
Another benefit is community service. It may not be exciting but everyone should give back. You’ve heard how powerful community service is on a resume. Employers love active candidates. As a member, you have no choice but to do so. Last year, a frat lost many members due to lack of community service. The members were busted for not upholding their pledge and were forced to leave. They joined the frat for the perks and weren’t willing to do other things that come with it.
It can get lonely in college, especially if you’re in a dorm where students rarely interact. You won’t have this problem in a frat/sorority. Greek life revolves around interaction. You grow to love your brothers/ sisters. Yeah, it’s fun partying with them, but think about the family atmosphere. You’ll always have someone to eat, play cards, and study with. Speaking of studying, you won’t have to worry about grades. Greek members are held to high academic standards. If you struggle with a subject, a member likely has the tools for assistance. Everybody looks out for each other and these bonds last for eternity.
I’ve presented only a few of the benefits. So, think about them when determining whether to join. Don’t consider which frat/sorority has the best parties. Why jeopardize your chance of staying in college? Give yourself the best chance to succeed. And when you join a frat/ sorority make it a better place. Greek members are known as slobs. They’ve developed this reputation because they joined with the wrong intentions. You can help alter the public perception.
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